raining petal

Wednesday 4 March 2015

new chapter

a lot of amazing thing happen to me this year...i will cherish it..becos not all is a bad memory that will last forever..........many are jealous that is normal..i bet??

my relationship so far...still ok la..i dont know why i just cant run anymore...not like be far but more closer...oh my? what had happen to me anyway, right? am i that crazy?

please Allah give me guidance and your path that is good and sensible for me..i need a guiding and from you Allah is all i need...to keep me calm and peace throughout my future ahead...amin..

as for family, my brother mirul is married already on january.....can believe but its true..already growing up..i hope that he will be more mature in making decision and not to rely on my mom on anything...cos i pity her..becos she will get sick and down again if he say that he had problem..with life, with money and also family.. grow up man!!

i already get new job and more environment and more friend..hehe that what is more like it...who say life is end at 3+...it just getting started you know? who know? Allah know everything...all happen is with his will..Syukur...

#bemorehappy #moreindipendant

Monday 24 March 2014

sendiri..

kalau rasa nk sendiri jgn la cmpor ngan org lain ...tau x?

buat hal sendiri lagi baik la..

buat org ade rase sebal je dlm ati..

kite cube nak buat baik tapi dy pula buat cmtu..mngkin sbb tu la rmai org lagi suke diam dr berbicara

#fikir la sendiri

Sunday 23 March 2014

RASA ini..

untuk seketika agak lama aku menyepi dr blog ini...aku cuba untuk simpan segalanya dan cuba untuk mengubah diri ku sedikit demi sedikit agar aku lebih kebal...tp kdgkala peraasan ini membunuh ku...

Adakah kerana ianya telah lama dlm hatiku,...sbb ianya utuh dan kukuh sehingga benci menjadi dendam yg membara.....

pengalaman ku dulu sedikit sebanyak mngajarku untuk kawal perasaanku dan biarkan ianya tersorok di dalam..hnya org yg kenal rapat sahaja dpt tahu ape yg ada dlm hati ku...

tetapi bila kau menyepi dan teru smenyepi ianya akan menimbulkan byk tnda tnya..siapakah aku di hatimu? wajarkah aku hnya kekal begini selamanya atau akankah ada penghujung bagi kisah kita ini..?

walhal aku telah bertkad untuk tarik diri andainya kau msih lagi berdiam diri..kerna masa dan usia tidak akan menunggu kita....

p/s: memujuk hati 




Sunday 9 February 2014

azam baru...weeee

mungkinkah aku dpata mmbahagiakan diri aku lbh dr org lain..? itu azam ku untuk thun ni...

lebih bykkan untuk diri aku n keluarga dri org lain..

lantak lah org nak ckp aku agak pentingkan diri sendiri tapi aku bertekad tuk buat semua tu sbb xnak kecewa n terluka lagi..adakah terlalu protective..pedulikan laaa...

#hanyaaku...#duniaku...

Thursday 20 December 2012

Decide Your Path : The Story of a man and his Street

That day, I was reading the Internet forum i frequent daily and saw an article posted by a member. The title? Would U marry U? My..isn't that an interesting question? I chuckled at the words on my laptop screen. The title was certainly interesting enough to make me sit up immediately, and honestly, I was curious to see how people would response!

A few minutes reading the article, I just sat there, with my back against the chair, pondering. The article had asked me to think of all my own behaviors and habits and ask myself this one, vital question:

-If I met a person (i.e myself) who had this list of characteristics, behaviors and attitudes, would I marry her?

I was supposed to reflect on my current behaviour and this is the key: not the behavior or character I wish to possess in the future. The evaluation period is now, current, present and at-this-instant behavior.

I began pondering. This method is excellent. Hmm..Would I marry Me? Surprisingly, I found my honest self saying, :' Mybe', instead of 'Definitely', or 'Of Course!'. So, I then asked myself what things i should do t help me to chnge my answer from a maybe to a definite yes? And so, I started creating another list.

This method is great that I decided to use the same line of questioning on myself for other things, too like: Would I befriend me? Would I trust me? Would I love me? Would I boss me? Would I student me? Or, maybe even: Would I daughter me? Okay, I know the last three sound a little bit weird, but I think you know what i mean, right?

To make it more understandable, you can rephrase the questions in another format: Would I take me as a friend? Would I trust a person like me? Would I love a person like me? Hmmm...

I was quite amused by the answer I gave to each of my questions. The results confirmed that i am only human (duh), so many weaknesses (double duh!) and I could definitely benefit from some behavioral changes. Definitely. I smiled while looking at the honest-to-goodness list about myself as I realized that this article was about to change. Improving oneself. Making the effort, Transformation. Alteration.

It presented a lovely method for self-assessment for our current character and everyday behavior. No multiple-choice questions a list of mismatched answers to tell us who we are. Just one question, and we do our own thinking for answers.

Allah, our creator, has told us the importance of taking responsibility for our actions:

         (To any of you that chooses to press forward, or to follow behind - Every soul will be (held)     in the pledge for its deeds) ( Al-Muddaththir 74: 37-38)

Subhanallah.  We will be asked by Allah to account for our individual actions, and the most important thing will be that we are responsible and accountable for them. Responsible and accountable. Two words that give me sleepless nights..

Remember this Hadith:

Abdullah ibn Umar narrated that the Messenger of Allah said, "Every one of you is a guardian and is responsible for his charges. The ruler who has authority over people, is a guardian and responsible for them, a mas is a guardian of his family and is responsible for them; a woman is a guardian of her husband's house and children and is responsible for them; a servant is a guardian of his master poverty and is responsible for it; so all of you are guardians and are responsible for your charges." (Al Bukhari and Muslim)

Because of the above hadith, I know in my heart that I must chnage nad modify anything within me that is inconsistent with my deen (religion), because, one day, I will be questioned by my Lord. That has made me realize something profound. Just imagine, my name being called out in front of the whole of mankind, everyone from Adam to the last man born, all eyes looking at me...then, all my wrongdoings made public and shown to everyone. How awkward, how embarrassing and how humiliating it would be. I don't think  I could face that. I don't think I could. Just thinking about it makes my knees tremble. Astaghfirullah. Forgive me, my Lord...

I need to save myself from all those possible humiliating moments. I know that I need to change whatever is not good within myself, bit by bit. Its is going to take some time. But, I have to do it.

I remember the advice of my beloved Prophet (peace be upon him):

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: "Whoever, among you, sees something abominable should rectify it with hid hand; and if he has not strength enough to do it, then he should do it with his tongue; and if he has not strength enough to do it, (even) then he should (abhor it) from his heart, and that is least of Faith." (Muslim)

I have always heard this hadith being used by Muslims when analyzing the behavior of others. I feel, however, that the advice from my Prophet (peace be upon him) can be applied to one's own behavior.

He (peace be upon him) said that, if we see something abominable, we should rectify it with our hands. Hands, according to the scholars, refer to actions. So, if I discover that there are things in me that are not good, shouldn't I also apply this hadith to myself?

I believe so. Yes, this means that I should modify whatever behavior is not desirable, right? Change it with my hands. Change it with actions - actions that would help alter my current behavior to a new one consistent with what Allah wants.

I know I have to do it myself, because Allah has said in the Glorious Qur'an what can be translated as:

(This is because Allah has never changed a favor which He has conferred upon a people until they change their own condition; and because Allah is Hearing, Knowing, (Al- Anfal 8:53)

Unless I change my own behaviors with my own actions, they will remain the same. Allah will not change them for me, if I, myself, refuse to change what I do, or who I am, right now. It is all up to me. It is si obvious, so clear. Change myself, or else I will never change. Allah says He will never change anyone until they change themselves.

N-E-V-E-R.....

Translation from: Life is an Open Secret



Monday 10 December 2012

Curahan Hati Kecilku...

Mngkin ada betulnya kalu kite kalu selalu berdmping ngan seseorg akan jd boring sbb cm no colour of rainbow that always shine b4...cube la tpuk dada n tanya hati...

Pernah x, kalu korang just kuar ngan seseorg yg korg kenal then tibe2 hati kite tringat je kt otg lain..so mood trus je spoil kan..walaupon pd dasarnye kuar 2 tok hepykan ati ni kan....kesian kawan yg temankan kite 2 kan,..nk pura2 tp xpndai nk memipu kerna ekspresi muke tph mnyatakan seluruh isi hATI kecil ini...

Ya Allah, betapa aku xdak mahu tok melukakan hati sesiapa pon yg ku temui kerna itu aku lbh suke mnyendrikan dri sahaja gar semua org xsedar akan kehadiranku ini...rasenye xsalahkan berbuat sedemikian sbb aku xmelibatkan sape2 pon lam hal n kegiatan aku,...tp mngkin ade juga yg akan trluka kerna sikap ku ini..aku x sombong cume xmau mnjdi peramah n akan mmbuatkn ati org trluka n lg parah lagi sekiranya pe yg dimahukan xdapt tok aku tunaikan..

Jd lbh baik sndri dr mnyakiti hati org n yg lbh skit lagi adlh hatiku sendri,...mmg cinta mmerlukan pengorbanan n aku x minta serta x akan ungkit pon pe yg penah ku beri or ku curahkan selama ini..kerna semuanye ikhlas dtg dr hati...tp aku xboleh sekiranya ade pngkhianatan dlm diam n xmngaku ngan perbuatannya itu,...sakit hati ini n lukanya sgt dlam...

Susah k untuk berlaku jujur dlm setiap masa kerna ianya umpama bhwa kita percaya...n tlong la jgn jdikan sy sbgai tmpt tok lepaskan kemarahan awk 2,..walaupon kdangkala kesalahannya hnya la minor shja..tp mngapa perlu hebohkan n spt nk mrah bagai nk rak...kerna dlm hati ade rse xpuas ati...sakit sgt hati ini hnya tuhan sahaja yg thu...org lain bolehl klu nk tipu,...jgn la kau tipu aku lagi,....kerna bile sesuatu itu sudah sebati lam diri kite..sukar tok dihapuskan walaupon sakit...kerna seolah2 telah sebati lam diri....


Saturday 2 June 2012

aku ingin bebas........

untuk sekian lamanya aq rse diriku dibelenggu dgn byk sgt bebanan...seseorg dr zaman silam ku yg masih menagih cintanya...walaupon pd dasarnya cintanya bukan milikku lagi...ke tlh merelakannya pergi n pasrah dgn ketentuanMu ya Allah...kerna smua yg berlaku pasti ada hikmah disebaliknya..aminn


rse bersalah ku pd zuriatku yg lme tlh x ku temui n jmpe,...msh ingatkah dy sape diri ku ini...sungguh kejamnya diriku kerna mmbuatnya bgini...aq cuma boleh mendoakannya agar dy selamat, sihat n dpat menjalani hidupnya spt org lain juga....


org yg suatu dulu aq syg...yg aq tlah mmberinya harapan serta diriku nhwa dialah yg terakhir dlm hidup ku....tp aq xnmpk pon perubahan ataupon perkembangan dlm titik noktahnya hubungan kami ini..smpai bila keaddan ini akan berterusan...hingga mnybbkan aq penat tok menunggu kesudahannya..kerna bukan kami tetapi hnya dia je yg mnjadi keutmaannya dlm sesuatu jerja yg dilakukan....


sehinggakn ibu bapaku sentiasa mndesak smpai bile hubungan kami ini....xkan tiada noktahnya..adakah dy hnya mmpermainkan ku...kerna bgnya ini hnyalah perkara yg remeh shja...tiada lbh dr itu..n xpyah nk difikirkn sgt...apa yg pnting skrg adalah mncari kerjaya yg sesuai n berjaya lam pe yg dy lakukan....tp aq bgaimana?


jd aq tlh mngambil keputusan tok meneruskan hidup ku sendri lagi..kerna senang bgku tok bergerak..tiada siapa yg akan mrah atau ambil peduli...biarla...yg aq ad hnyalah kedua ibu bapaku yg sentiasa mnyokong dlm pe jua yg aq lakukan....


 aq harus fikir ttg diriku dulu baru org lain..sygi diriku lbh dr org lain...aq ingin bebas bergerak bak burung di langit...tnpa d pe2 hlangan dan juga sesiapa yg mengarahknnya....ya allah, aq bermohon kpdMu agar dideri hidayahMu, petunjukMu dlm setiap pe yg aq lakukan agar aq lbh yakin...dlm setiap pe yg aq lakukan skrg...kau bimbingla ku ke jalan yg kau redhai ya allah..kerna aq keliru n sgt mndambaknMu..kerna kdg2 jiwaku kosong...smoga dipermudahkan segalanya...amin..